Respect is a fundamental human quality that I believe is becoming less prevalent in today’s society. On a daily basis I am taken aback by the lack of respect shown by some students; whether it be disrespect shown to a member of staff, to a peer or even disrespect of property. I wonder whether it maybe due to age or even due to culture, however behaviours I witness at times can be quite concerning.
Growing up I was taught to appreciate what I had and to be grateful for it. Basic manners such as please, thank you and excuse me were instilled in me from a young age and still today I reprimand my own children if they don’t use their manners. If I wanted to borrow someone else’s belongings I would first ask and if they said I was allowed then I would be thankful, and if not then I would respect their wishes. When my parents, teacher or coach gave me instructions I wouldn’t dare to answer back or ignore what they had asked me to do. That’s not saying that at times I didn’t disagree with them, but out of respect for my elders and people in positions of authority I would put my own opinions aside and do as I was told.
These gestures, I believe, form the foundation of respectful behaviour. Regardless of an individual’s occupation or position in society respectful behaviour should hold the utmost value. Throughout life everyone will be put in situations where they may not like someone they are working for or working with, however it is always necessary to be respectful towards everyone you meet. I would ask you, as parents, to have a discussion with your child. Question them as to whether they feel their behaviour at all times, both at college and outside of college is respectful to those around them. Do they behave in a manner that would make you proud? Do they treat everyone they meet with respect?
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